Miss Mackenzie Jones

Last night was Mackenzie's pageant and she was a great success! She won Miss Photogenic and Miss 8th Grade EJHS. The night was very long for the rest of us, but she had fun and was very happy, so all in all it was worth it. I have pictures, but beware they are blurry and were taken in a gym with not the best lighting. I hope you enjoy them anyway. :)

Conversation with my Husband

Last night:

Me: I am so tired.

Dallas: You should be. You clean, cook, do laundry, drive to Birmingham at least once a week, drive the kids everywhere, deal with all of DJ's medical stuff, pay all of the bills, do all of your PTA stuff, and now you have added college courses on top of everything. You know what you need? One of those people that cook and clean and do your laundry and all of that other stuff.

Me: You mean a wife?

Dallas: Yes, exactly! You need a wife.

He then went on to tell me all about his evil plan to get me to marry him, and how it all worked.
I love my husband! I'm very glad that his evil plan worked. :)

The link below

has a few pictures from Easter and some of the ones we took of Mackenzie for her school pageant. The pictures from Easter are a little weird because it was foggy, but I think they turned out alright. I usually just post from my camera, but DJ has taken to photography, so my camera is full of pictures of Power Rangers and Spiderman right now. Pulling them from Snapfish was much easier. :)

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Maybe I am just Naive....

I am really struggling to understand people. I read these articles and comments made about the Church and it all gets very political and historical and they all argue with each other over every little detail. Now I know that we should study the Church History and what the prophets have told us and we should read the scriptures, but I have always been taught that after you do these things you should pray and ask for understanding and knowledge of the truthfulness of them. Why then do people feel the need to toss around their so called knowledge to try and belittle others and to prove how spiritual they are.

I also really don't understand those who say that they love the gospel, but then criticize the speakers at General conference for the tone of voice that they used or because they felt that their story was demeaning to women. It makes me think that maybe they missed the point. We are there to listen to the spirit. The speakers are there to teach us those things that our Heavenly Father wants us to know and work on. If we are listening with the spirit the other stuff just doesn't matter.

But then again, I am probably being too judgmental. I just have such a strong testimony of the truthfulness of the gospel, and I know that while our trials may be hard, if we just put aside what we think we know and truly listen with the spirit every thing will come a little easier and we will be able to find the understanding that we crave. Maybe I am a little naive, but I think I would rather be this way than arguing with everyone all the time.

Everything seems to be going backwards...

With DJ that is. The rest of life seems to be moving along rather smoothly. The girls are happy and active, Dallas is working and organizing, and I am trying to be patient and stay sane. Pretty normal for us.

I get very frustrated with DJ's doctor, and I am trying really hard to be more understanding, but it doesn't always work very well. This last week has been one of those times when I have not been very successful at being calm and understanding. They are discussing removing a portion of DJ's esophagus because they are not making progress with the dilations, and he can't have a dilation done every two weeks for the rest of his life. I knew that it might come to this at some point, so I was not surprised when the doctor brought this up. Our doctor in Utah had thought that it might be the case last year, but then we moved and had to start all over with a new doc. We were hoping to have a decision made this past week, but they are waiting awhile longer before they decide. He will go in for an esophagram next week and another dilation the following week. Maybe by then we will have more news. I doubt it though. Those of you that know me know that I like to have things planned and to be in control of as much as possible, thus my frustration at having absolutely no control over this situation. Apparently this is a lesson that I must learn, and I am not liking it one bit.

Mackenzie will be participating in the Miss Enterprise Junior High Pageant this month and has practices starting this week. I am hoping that she does well, but she doesn't listen to any advice I might have, so again another situation I have no control over. Do we sense a pattern here? I am thankful that she will listen to her Young Women leaders and other members in our family, so hopefully she will be prepared for this.

I am looking forward to spring break in a week. we are hoping to make a quick trip down to Destin and the beach for at least a day, and I think the girls are looking forward to sleeping in. It will be hard on DJ though, since he loves school so much and doesn't understand why they don't go every single day. I am certain that he will grow out of that feeling soon enough, so I will enjoy his love of school while I can. :)